I like older people because they do not have ambition, which is something that destroys my life.  I will never get anywhere, no matter what I do.  Therefore, it's difficult for me to be with someone who wants to compete or might have a change in status.  They will leave me with welfare babies.  People interfere with my life all of the time, and I hope they're happy.  I like men that are around 40-45, a little overweight and who are laid back because I smoke invisible crack.  No, I'm not on drugs, but I live on the edge, and it's nice to have someone who isn't going to freak out.

Other people like older people because they have money.  I like the money too, but I won't get "that" if you know what I mean because my body has been destroyed.

Most men gain their sophistication in their 40's/50's and can offer that to a young woman. Also, the guy may have a decent job paying lots of $$$ and she may be attracted to the power and wealth. Think of Donald Trump and his trophy wife.

The motivation of the man is what I said with Donald Trump. Men care much more about outer beauty and perhaps, for some men in their 50's, scoring that hot trophy wife may get you major props from his pals.

My wife is 8 1/2 years older than me.I didn't know it at the time I became attracted to her and it was too late then,I didn't care how old she was,I just wanted to be around her all the time.She on the other hand had just been divorced and I think saw me as someone to comfort and love her.It wasn't so much love.32 years later we are still married and care a great deal for each other,but I still question her true feelings for me but only because of the foundation.It took 15 years of marriage for her to finally SAY she loved me,3 kids later.It's just something I struggle with and shouldn't,but I do.

Sometimes people aren't with someone for their looks.To some it's about how they treat you and how they make you feel.

I'd share what experience I have, but I won't share too much. 

All I'm going to say is that I've always liked "older" men, because they are experienced. It also could definitely have to do with daddy issues. I didn't believe that, at the time, but I certainly do now. It's something I would advise against.

I just think the answer is going to be different for everyone. I don't think there is a blanket answer, even though some people are going to be so sure of themselves, when they aren't in the persons shoes. And that's something that always has and always will annoy the crap out of me.

But if this guy started a relationship with her when she was like 16-17... there's something wrong with that.